#Pimping for Disabled
Brain Injury Charity, Headway, has been advocating for the last 3 years that disabled men should access prostitution – and that their care workers should support them in this. Indeed, this policy informed a recent Judge’s ruling declaring is was discrimination if care workers did NOT help disabled men can access prostitution (a ruling now being challenged by the Secretary of State).
Tell Headway to reconsider.
The horrific murder of Sarah Everard has led to an outpouring of women’s experiences and renewed calls to urgently address the underlying attitudes that lead to men’s harassment, abuse and ultimately assault and even murder of women.
In light of this, the Government is re-opening the consultation on its Violence Against Women and Girls strategy. Tell them to recognise pornography and all forms of the sex industry as directly feeding the attitudes that lead to discrimination, harassment, abuse and assault – not only for women in the sex trade but for all women and girls.
You can complete their online survey here
Or take 30 secs to send this pre-filled email
Either way, if you have experienced the harm of the sex trade please let the Government know
Send Something Longer
Copy and paste the below and send to the Home Office here
re: The Government’s Violence Against Women and Girls (VAWG) Strategy 2021-2024
In light of the horrific murder of Sarah Everard and the subsequent outpouring of women’s experiences, it is more urgent than ever to address the underlying attitudes that lead to men’s routine harassment, abuse and ultimately assault of women.
You must ensure your strategy recognises the porn and sex industries in all forms (from strip clubs, ‘sugaring’ and webcamming to escorting/massage parlours/brothels/street prostitution) as an unacceptable form of abuse against women and girls – both for those in these industries and because of the deeply damaging attitudes they promote in wider society.
Prostitution – exchanging sex or sexual acts for money or anything else (food, accommodation etc) – is sexual exploitation and abuse. It is psychologically deeply harmful for those in it – even if it is ‘freely’ entered into as a ‘fully informed choice’, even if management/punters are ‘never abusive’ (on both counts this is rarely, if ever, the case).
Even the ‘soft’ ends of the sex trade (lap dancing, webcamming, sugaring) are deeply damaging, abusive and often violent. At the same time research shows that women, across the world, feel (and often are) less safe in the vicinity of the sex industry – even strip clubs (often to the point of a curfew-style avoidance of the local area altogether).
The UK Government currently lags well behind many other UK bodies such as the Crown Prosecution Service, the Scottish Government and the Mayor of London (‘Tackling Violence against Women and Girls’ Strategy) who all already recognise prostitution as a form of violence against women and girls. Whilst both Northern Ireland and the Republic of Ireland have already passed legislation to this effect, as have many other nations across the globe – and where properly implemented this has virtually eliminated trafficking and the sex trade. Other countries have additionally legislated to end lap dancing as a form of abuse against women (such as Iceland and Israel). Some nations, such as Thailand and Nepal have banned pornography as a clear violation of the rights of women and children.
Yet, rather than the UK Government taking any such measures, it has allowed our country to become a ‘trafficking hub’ for Romanian women. It is credit card companies that are taking the lead to end the abuse of porn ( by refusing payments to Pornhub). It is survivors of brutal rape, mutilation, torture and child abuse who are taking holding Pornhub to account in court. It is Google that is banning ads for the sex industry.
No price can be put on the human cost of the sex trade, but the monetary cost to the state runs to £ billions – every year (the costs of social care and of the widespread criminal activity it is linked to). By contrast, ending the sex industry by criminalising pimps, deterring punters (which is shockingly easily done) and supporting women to exit yields at least a 2:1 Return on Investment.
The porn and sex industries do not only harm those working in them, but vigorously promote the underlying attitudes that lead to abuse and violence against all women and girls. There is decades of research evidencing the link between the consumption of porn and violence against women and girls. Recently, the Women and Equalities Committee reported that the acceptance of prostitution and LEGAL pornography directly correlates with the acceptance of sexual harassment. But the simple fact is, such overwhelming evidence would not be required if we were talking about widespread abuse against any other group. Why aren’t the same principles being applied to women and girls?
Your Strategy must explicitly recognise all forms of prostitution and all abusive/humiliation pornography (ie all porn) as violence against women and girls, harming both those in these industries and outside of them – a harm that cannot be mitigated through regulation.
It must also recognise the social ‘grooming’ into these industries by the mass/social media/culture of objectification and through underage children accessing them (eg via non age restricted online porn).
It must also recognise misogyny as a hate crime. This has to include the street harassment women and even many underage girls are routinely subjected to. Not only is this a major reason women do not feel safe outside alone at night, it allows this abuse to be seen as acceptable and so not only continue but escalate. Your strategy also has to include eradicating the online hate/abuse/threat far too many women experience. The extreme measures that, rightly, have been proposed to deal with racial abuse against footballers shows that where there is a will there most certainly is a way. It is time for the same principles to be applied to women and girls.
Scotland is consulting on prostitution, on reducing demand, reducing harm and supporting exiting.
Please respond, no matter where you live.
It is especially important for SURVIVORS to respond if you can
See the full consultation paper here
It is a long consultation! But if you have:
– 2-5 Min. Simply respond to Que 1 (with the text below*) and/or add your own thoughts to Que 9 (Chapter 5)
-Make sure you fill in the ‘About You’ section (ensure you preserve your anonymity if needed), and then click Submit
*Response to Que 1 (copy and paste the below into Que 1 – near the bottom of this page – then click ‘Continue’ at the bottom):
To reduce violence against women/girls in the sex industry and to all women/girls in wider society, the overarching aim must be full commitment to a comprehensive (and cost effective) ‘exit and prevent’ strategy on prostitution, backed at the highest level, rather than a ‘harm reduction’ approach:
-Seek to eradicate demand (surprisingly easy done)
-Heavily deter pimp/traffickers (prison sentences, assets seized to support prevention/exiting)
-Never penalise or criminalise in any way (eg via ASBOS, fines or criminal records for soliciting, loitering etc) those who sell sex & wipe all pre-existing criminal records
-Support those who sell sex with exiting and with long term post exiting support both in terms of mental health (survivor-led, trauma-informed) and practical (liaising with relevant agencies for exiting, support into work/training)
-Prevent entry through early intervention (including addressing poverty, prior/ongoing abuse, poor mental health and raising awareness of the huge harms of the industry)
-Prevent entry through zero tolerance to any aspect of the sex trade (strip clubs, escort agencies/massage parlours etc and online advertising of any aspect of it)
-Recognise that ‘harm reduction’ is actually ‘harm promotion’. This cannot prevent entry, it allows the sex industry (which cannot be regulated) to massively expand; the illegal industry (trafficking, child rape prostitution etc) to flourish; makes it much harder for women to leave and much harder to receive appropriate support once exited. It creates ‘no go’ zones in prostitution areas for all women and girls. It promotes deeply harmful attitudes throughout society. This has been seen in every country that has enabled prostitution, including here in the UK (the Leeds ‘Managed Zone’). It has been seen throughout the UK where the strip industry has been licensed and all attempts at regulation have failed comprehensively – with it clearly serving as a portal for organised crime, drugs, financial fraud, prostitution and trafficking.
-Any approach other than the Nordic Model is highly likely to be challengeable under UK equality law as a breach of the Public Sector Equality Duty. Under this all public bodies must pay due regard to the need to: ‘eliminate harassment, discrimination and victimisation’ of women by men and ‘foster good relations’ between the sexes.
-Recognise that the financial costs of the sex trade are extortionate (including the associated social care and criminal costs) compared to the cost of properly implemented exiting and prevention
-Recognise the harm of the sex trade to ALL, not just to those in it. Its presence, normalising and glamourising promotes deeply harmful belief systems to all girls and women and harmful, hyper macho stereotypes to men and boys – the very foundation of violence against women
-Only fund or work with individuals, NGOs and others who understand prostitution as inherently harmful, who recognise that those in the industry operate in denial as an essential survival mechanism and who are fully committed to a ‘prevent and exit’ approach.
-Ensure widespread public awareness, education and training of all stakeholders of the reality and harm of the porn/sex trades, including the media, schools and mainstream providers
In April, dozens of supporters write to their MPs, the Home Office and London Mayor to back calls by Sarah Champion MP, survivors, numerous front line service providers and others for urgent resources to support women out of the sex trade – clearly totally untenable for the 1-2 years that social distancing is likely to be in place.
Since then, the Government pledged £76 million to support the most vulnerable including victims of sexual abuse and modern day/sexual slavery. Sarah Champion is now calling on the DWP (a key point of contact for those in/at risk of the sex trade) for ring-fenced funding and co-ordination for exit services
The Home Office Response [£millions available to support the vulnerable in prostitution]
The GLA’s Response [being advised by a ‘sex worker’ advisory group, that uses the language of the sex trade lobby]
TAKE MORE ACTION
Write to them
- Copy and paste the letter below:
- Send to The Home Secretary at: [email protected]
- cc: [email protected]; [email protected]
You can also send it to:
- Your MP/MSP/Welsh Assembly member (and, if in London ALL London Assembly Members) via Write to Them
- Don’t forget to confirm the email then sent to you by Write To Them
Corona Necessitates a total rethink of the sex trade
The move by the Home Office for considerable funding for the most vulnerable, including supporting women out of the sex trade is hugely welcome. However, not only is the sex trade already well known to be deeply abusive it is now totally untenable with social distancing likely for the next 1-2 years.
This means that, above and beyond immediate support for those in it, there clearly needs to be a radical re-think of the entire industry:
- All action to support those used in the sex trade has to go hand-in-hand with shutting down the industry to prevent re-entry or future entry (either during the pandemic or afterwards). This means existing legislation against pimping, against brothel keeping and against punters buying sexual services from anyone who is coerced (essentially all those in the sex trade) has to, finally, be rigorously enforced.
- Given the fact that up to 90% of ‘Johns’ would stop paying for sex if there were the threat of small fines, points off a driver’s license, being ‘named’ as a buyer or being put on the sex offenders registry – the demand for the industry could be effectively ‘shut down’ if there were the political will.
- I would further point out that this is not just an issue of extreme human cost – exiting women from the sex trade is even financially cost effective with the APPG on Prostitution indicating a 2:1 Return on Investment.
Thank you and I hope you can address the long term implications of corona and the sex trade as soon as possible.